In general, women must be aware of several options other than being trapped at the hands of men for their safety and security in life. Normally, conservative ladies fall into the trap of men very easily compared to independent women. Nobody can help you to resolve your relationship problems like you especially if you are trapped in a filthy relationship. Women must understand that being in love is different from being used and they must know the signs of being used by a man.
Signs Reveal That You are Being Used by a Man
Out of love and affection, you may not differentiate whether you are being loved or used by a man. If you are aware of some signs that reveal the real face of the men, then you can react accordingly. Signs are,
1. Talking About Them Only
If you both have a conversation but the talk just revolves around him only means it is one-sided. He uses you to listen to his intention as you will give him perfect company. Simply, he would like to be the centre of attraction in all the conversations between you both. It is one of the best signs that you are being used by a man and you don’t lend ears when he talks about him all the time.
2. Never Thank You
If your partner forgets about your gratitude for whatever you do in and around the family, then you must be alert. Being thankful to you is the value he offers for what you do. Though you are satisfying him in a way more than he thinks, if he is not getting thought to thank you means you are used.
3. Getting Affairs with Others
Though he spends a lot of time with you to discuss on something that he likes still he would like to keep an illegal relationship with someone. It is one of the clearest signs that you are being used in a relationship and you must be careful. The common mistake of women is that they get addicted to men’s words thinking that the men are good to them. Don’t do that, and try to show your value and emotions to him to be loyal to you.
4. You Have Never Seen His Friends
Men who are interested to introduce their friends to women are good guys and women must not miss them in life. If you are being disrespected, he never introduces you to his friends and family. This activity of a man must hint to you that he is talking to you just like that and not planning for a long-term relationship.
5. Brushing Away Your Desires
The woman must understand that if the man doesn’t care about her likes and dislikes means he is bothering her no more. It is also one of the signs you are being used by a man and if you find your man keeps this character, and then explain to him. Nothing works out even after that, and then she can walk away from him.
Final Verdict
“Now, you can answer the inert questions like what is the limit you set for the man in your life and how good is the man obeying his limits” If you get justified answers, then you can continue the connection with him otherwise, you are being used.
